Hey there, how have you been doing so far? I thank you for landing yourself to this posts, as this is a very sensitive and important topic I have always wanted to share on this blog. Have you ever been bullied by someone before? Have that someone trampled on you, say nasty things to you, put you down or even make you feel intimidated and inferior? Honestly, I believe every one of you out there had had this one incident before. And, yes, I have been bullied before...
In this world, in this life that each of you are living, there is bound to be people that are jealous of you, that hates you, that despise you and that wants you to suffer. That is inevitable. Because, with people comes friends and with friends comes enemies. However, it is up to each of us to stop this vicious cycle. To reach out and help the stranger beside you, to stand up for a bullied victim, to confront and stop your bully classmates. Humans have that power to change the world, so do it for the better. Would it be amazing and beautiful to see everyone helping each other harmoniously and embracing each other differences?
Sometimes, I really wonder, why do we need to look good and pretty to be accepted by the "popular" group in the class? Why do we need to be smart and intelligent to be accepted and loved by our teachers? Why do we need to have perfect fit and slim bodies to be labelled as beautiful? Why do we need to act like someone else to be called "cool"? Why do we need to dress and talk the way that everyone likes? Why cant we just be who we are and what we really are? Why some people are so judgemental? Why do all of us not embrace each other imperfections?
I am literally filled with this heap of questions whenever I thought of bullying... You know, not everyone is perfect the way they are, so if someone ever tell you that you are not worthy, just put that thought away in some dark place. Do not ever feel that you are the odd one out and you are just not like the others. Ultimately, it is how you feel about yourself that matters, you are the only solution to your problems. Trust yourself, believe yourself, have some faith in yourself and stand strong for yourself. Let the bullies know that they will not get away with it, but that does not mean to fight back aggressively. What I really hope you all will do is a silent but smart meditation. Ever heard of the sweetest revenge is to be happier than your enemies?
Well, the best solution I have for you is to live happily and forget sorrows. Do not let the bullies have a chance to knock you down. If you manage to live happier than your bullies, you already succeed, you already have the upper hand. Always remember this, life is too short for fights and quarrels, live every moment like its the last and you will find happiness that no one will be able to discover. And, if after reading this post, you still do not feel better, try listening to MEAN by Taylor Swift, HALL OF FAME & SUPERHEROES by The Script.
Lastly, I just want to say do not ever bully someone, and before you start discriminating someone ,think twice. Lets build a world free of bullying and full of joy and happiness. May Bullying ends today!
Thank you for Reading!!!
Sincerely, Daphne :)
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